You're a happily married straight woman. I'm a happily single lesbian. Well guess what? I just met your husband and he felt more comfortable talking to me and telling me what's REALLY on his mind than with you. These are real conversations I've had with your husband or someone very much like him. Much of it might surprise you. Some of it will downright SHOCK you. But all of it is what he (really) told me...and wishes he could tell you...